The "outing" of Willow Rosenburg was anything but a cry for ratings, unlike the Hayden Panettiere/Heroes fiasco just a few years ago when the revolving door lover of many males, Claire Bennet suddenly starts an interest in a homely co-ed during the show's least viewed, and final season. In Buffy the Vampire Slayer Joss Whedon, the show's creator, hints at Willow's future sexual realization early on when Willow meets an alternate universe, vampire version of herself, who in every sense of the word is bisexual. The fourth season of the hit show allows Willow to blossom sexually with the departure and betrayal of her one and only boyfriend, Oz. What follows is one of the most well done "easing them into it" tv tactics I have ever seen. Whedon reveals the sexual relationship between Willow and new "friend" Tara through their mutual practicing of witchcraft, some spells becoming so intense it is clear that one or both at times appear to be reaching orgasm. Not until the death of Buffy's mom, a dark and depressing episode for the Buffyverse, that the audience finally sees the couple kiss on screen, a passionate attempt from Tara to console a mourning Willow. Hard for an audience to complain about that kiss, if you have a heart at all. Most shows at that time, when giving their main characters a gay romance, usually throw it away in later episodes as a fling after the relationship is over. In Buffy, Willow loses Tara and in the final season of the show, meets a new female love interest, showing that being a lesbian was who Willow was, and it was not just Tara who symbolized Willow's homosexuality anymore. It was Willow herself. Definitely a show I urge ANYONE to check out. The first two seasons are rough when it comes to special effects. Very nineties. But the story is solid through and through. Does not disappoint. Here are some clips that I think help my message about Willow ring true. Thank you, Joss! You are a tv blessing.
P.S. If you can't sit through the entire song from the Buffy musical I'm posting below I totally understand, but if you've never seen it, you at least have to see 1.35 until the end. Straight men should especially enjoy.